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The truth is that I stumbled into this page. I wanted to tell me a little more about Opus Dei, but you are really scaring me. I do not know if the page is American and different things happen there, but the fact is that, I guess if they should have perhaps too strict rules .. weno .. I am telling you no more.
Now, I've always had of Opus as something touching the boundaries of sect .. pq more than anything in 8th when we got to choose paths to take in college, we talked about the Efas with some suspicion, as q were going to wash the head. But after that I forgot I existed. Later, I learned of q people belonged to that organization, kerais prelature or call, for example. bco director. My neighbor the third .. etc. Normal people.
Well, my relationship until there was only hearsay.
Then I met a boy, a boy majisima, super normal, like we all go, with his girlfriend, his ideas of waiting until marriage to do so (which did not seem odd q, pq tb I thought I like and do not consider myself a freak ). We became friends .. and good .. something else. And the truth is you let me  because despite all the ideals q q are or are supposed Christians follow, the first thing she said when q q I still did not know he belonged to Opus and went with them was that they were normal people, like any other and that therefore they had the same defects and failed us as q, q important thing was getting up. And believe me if I tell anyone fail as q, q are able to flout the rules without q be punished or anything even knowing it their superiors, pq boy now that is my "lover" with what it entails q lies, horns .. etc, and despite aq sabe q lo q hare (or do) is not well, and try to do things as God sends q aunke ever rises again to fall, remains (or continue) a person as another, with temptations, q and q if one take a joke about God will cast no more, and still feel the same respect. Only he has chosen to believe otherwise, aunke lgo drop as everyone. So .. q think we are out of place it is Opus q .. or kiza .. me getting caught are adept   not, but I I have been to see any movie, read any book and talk about all topics, and invitations to such meetings, telling us things when they go on retreat, inviting us to pilgrimages, and never keep anything secret q belongs to Opus, and besides .. about people are the q tb. I do not know. The case is q not think .. if you believe what I read or what I see. |
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| Ulises |
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08 October de 2002 at 19:10:35 
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I think the issue raised this girl does not get at all from that audience this forum. Opus One can speak about their interests or how it affects their members, but also important is the way it affects at people who interact with them.
In this particular case is not about the morality of that relationship, that would be a different subject, but how is approached from the perspective of a member of Opus Dei who allegedly seeks the "sanctity" through their daily life and the hypocrisy which implies this relationship and the possible acceptance of that organization for men who belong to it may take them until they affect your relationship with her or her social situation.
Does anyone know of women in Opus with such relationships?.
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08 October de 2002 at 19:19:35
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I registered to you not so invited lieis .. now I'm Eve .. at least I hope kitarme the "mistress".
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| I'm a guest but you read it, I almost never actively participated in the forum. Frankly loving the themes of qe I think is beyond the pot, I believe that you can blame opus other things, but I really do not think anyone who is the opus (temporary / a in this case) and above have keep a girlfriend relationship with another officer. I do not think so, I'm sure that's not the Opus, and has thrown the lamp it is. The people of the book is more coherent than that, while having other defects. Nor do I think there supernumerary agent married and extramarital relations are with other people is not consistent in OD which tend to lead by example. On these issues I do not think anything has been said, I am convinced that people presumed without OPUS. I feel if someone disagrees with me, but everyone has a say in this forum, which incidentally is quite interesting. |
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| Lola2002 |
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09 October de 2002 at 01:54:59
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Hey, that's not being Opus certificate of holiness, let alone that they feel the "pull" of sensuality (opusino I re-emerged, no?) To inform you, I know people who, being in love Opus married type, I also know of a numerary who abndonó study center because she was pregnant (in Argentina), dating from "opusinos" in which there was infidelity ...
Do not idealize, because no one is exempt from anything...
Lola
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In the / the guest / a who has written before (I'm not using a nickname too, is not typically participate in the forum) I see very difficult to tell one "bluff" Opus saying it because I cases I know it is rather the reverse, it kept secret  But beyond each with creating or stop believing. How hard it is to accept that someone from the work is "human weaknesses"? jeje |
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| Not only is it normal that adults have sexual needs and that we try to practice, but also it is normal if it goes against their moral standards to do so, sexuality is not all as healthy as it would be desirable, besides the consequences they might suffer as shown in the "clinical research on the negative influence of destructive cults in the sexuality of his ex-followers" by Eloy Rodriguez Valdes (psychologist and sexologist) presented at the XIII International Congress of Sexology in June 1997 in Valencia . |
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