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Lola2002 |
12 tracks initiated 179 messages posted veteran |
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Published
06 September de 2002 at 15:23:19
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I propose that we anecdotes (good or bad) of our passage through the work ... I start with some opinions from someone I met online.
A kiss!
Incorporated Internet:
Such significant details as to ask, without any shame, at people on if they resort to masturbation; infuse children seven years of adult fear for sin, reject the deal with the opposite sex; proceed without any kind of scruples, to recruit minors to the Prelature, never express a sincere and generous treatment in friendship, or at the very professional treatment, to organize meetings where members present their work progress in the apostolate , making such derogatory comments like "Well, I think that nerd is about to bite the bait!" profess "faith in the goodness? of the Work and of all its members submit an unhealthy obsession for not infringing the famous "Do not commit impure acts" to favor the religious over the rational approach, assisting contradictions aberrant despise,
demonstrating a disgraceful and merciless Classism SOCIAL
to non-believers or socially disadvantaged;
Shelling, with other members of the Work, the intimacies
reveal that may have been so confident of his friends ..... Anyway, could go on, but I'm getting very bad   Lola
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| cazuelo |
4 tracks initiated 64 messages posted veteran |
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Published
02 October de 2002 at 19:23:13 
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I will tell two details of my "modest" position of adding five years:
When you created the club in my city and in order to obtain the
grants from the government of my Autonomous Region was established
as "Youth Association". As such legal garb (word that
like both) required a series of legal procedures, without eating or
drink a few young (can not remember if we had 18 years)
we were appointed founding members and partners with voice and vote in such
association. With one exception never held even one of the
mandatory general meetings. He was exercising the functions of
secretary of the Youth Association (another added that he had no charge
organic within the council) which was invented (literally)
development boards and embodied in a report. Later
we spent writing the signature. Jokingly told me after that
My mouth had a complaint "so critical you are." This, that
it is just an anecdote and possibly play in many
and many associations, becoming even indignation in a
institution that preaches the observance and exercise of rights and
obligations in civil life as any layman.
Another, this more seriously, the cash which starred a priest in a
bizarre interpretation of the secrecy of confession I "forced" to
cries to tell him, seconds before the sacrament, if
what I was going to accuse masturbation. When protest the
coercion to which was undergoing and I urged him to begin the
confession that his response was "nonsense to stop me." Obviously
intended to have the freedom to tell who consider
appropriate. I've been tempted several times to tell at church authorities with the full name of the priest, but I've never done.
In short, it is a thorny issue and is more comfortable quelo forget but something bubbling inside me. The trouble is that I have been forgetting 17 years and I still wonder what this institution, what of God is, what of neurotic suffering, what
task will now imminent after sanctification and why both
ninguneo to those who left so much meat in psychology and has generated.
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12 tracks initiated 121 messages posted veteran |
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Published
02 October de 2002 at 21:27:59 
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If you can not categorize an anecdote, but it's something I want to tell.
It happens that I felt so alone in there that (although I never liked women, I am dyke) started to make more friends with a numerary assistant with the other and, sometimes, while returning from a parcel, I will not specify because I will not give details that could identify with, came back holding hands as friends, nothing more, but I noticed in his hand the warmth I needed in there and I liked that feeling. But I started thinking that this could be a sin and confessed to the priest that is missing. I assure you that no sin was not sexual, but he did not see it well, maybe I expressed it, had come there with 15 years and was very shy, either, because they immediately sent me out to tell what the director of the house, not that of my confidence, but, as I said, to the house.
A few days later they told me that he had no vocation and never became clear to me why I stopped having it.
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| Selene |
0 tracks initiated 3 messages posted recent |
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Published
03 October de 2002 at 02:46:34 
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I propose as a topic for the forum:
What is the meaning of human sexuality for Opus Dei?
I propose this as an issue because of what he read in the forum, for those of sexuality is still a tabú.Cuidado opus! Because a taboo can lead to eroticism, for clarification, the cards on the table and every thing give his name. Forgiveness is very late and I do not see anything! I can not find the Startup folder item, sorry. But I hope that they are interested, I have more issues to suggest if you agree.
Warm greetings to all, until tomorrow
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| javier |
2 tracks initiated 17 messages posted recent |
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Published
04 October de 2002 at 01:38:54 
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The tray scandalous.
I think it was in year 76 when an annual meeting in Guatemala, we met for dinner and I had to sit in the same table as the chaplain who was a little nagging fear that he sometimes made exaggerated.
I was 16 and had a year as cash.
At that dinner I remember one of the assistants he dropped the tray with some dishes, food and cutlery, suddenly full of cash that room was completely silent men. Those poor girls were running from one place to another and we all looked as if waiting who was the first to help, however I saw my mate the Counselor-table and he, undaunted, did not move from their site and did not interrupt dinner for nothing.
That night I thought something was wrong, or too uncharitable prejudice regarding women at or maybe it's that there were social classes among ourselves.
Well, although perhaps this anecdote may sound unimportant or trivial to me was very shocked.
The rich kid.
Once I was asked to treat a kid my age who was not my school mate.
This boy was the son of a businessman who owns a franchise very important in my country and therefore a lot of money.
The truth of the matter is that the directors saw that this boy "had a vocation" and although it was obvious he could not have a vocation because he lived in racing cars (or bikes, I forget) and other "frivolous" not surprised me so marked interest of managers to deal with it. It must have been for your money?
Months later referring to another boy, a priest of the work we said, rubbing his thumb and index finger, "one must treat it because it has ..."
Well, that's another story that was plain and simple but in my mind.
The distorted picture.
At the same annual meeting, after a talk with a director who was given in a very cozy room with a fantastic view of nowhere the same counselor. He entered the room, which was like a living room, and ridiculed the poor director shouting and all of us for not having realized that one of the paintings on the wall was gently inclined to one side and that was our lack of observation sample we had not understood the spirit of Opus Dei.
Well, I assure you this was a good lesson for me, I began to understand a bit where I had gotten.
I do not think the justification here fit hand in all there are all sorts of people, criticism is focused on the same system causes fanatical attitudes in people. |
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