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 Published 01 November de 2002 at 03:16:48    

For me, that I specie, the aggregates were largely unknown (I refer to the peculiarity of his vocation). When I Pite not even know there was another chance to live this vocation but without "family life".
Now that I am of the work, even for simple curiosity, I wonder how they have added to their vocation is to be added.
What is so peculiar a person or their circumstances to be added to raise cash rather?
How do they see the calling of cash? Do we have any cases in this forum of someone who would be cash and told to aggregate beep?
And what are these peculiarities of character or whatever, that make a NSF could or should not live in "family"
 
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 Published 07 November de 2002 at 00:54:50    


No, Cazuelo, as recounted in the discussion "Is this respect for freedom?" cash raised me to be suddenly and coerced me to accept quickly, managed to convince me within hours (I was even 14 years, not 15 like you). So I was not able to ask how many types of vocation was in the work, or ask the articles (I guess it never has done a 14 or 15 years at the time of beep). And the people I spoke that afternoon, including the director and the priest of the center-not a word I said about there were other ways of being of the Work and temporary aggregates. (Incidentally, may I say that there numerary assistants, one who walks a little perdidillo asked him ;-)
But Stew, not everyone-fortunately-has entered the work as I did. Others came as adults and more knowledgeable about the OD Some even called for the admission after feeling really an inner call and after meditating quietly before taking the plunge. So sure there are people who whistle before requesting information about this. I see that you can not satisfy my curiosity about the question that started this debate, but perhaps others added if they can.
Thanks.
 
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 Published 07 November de 2002 at 18:48:06    

Iggy, if it helps my learning, and as I discuss in another post, I had a week by a beep when numeraries center. During that week (though not explained to me), q I realized there were people who married and people who were living in a house all together. As I said in Torreciudad who had a vocation, thought it was for a supernumerary, but politely told me that God wanted something more from me, before this fact was thought to be cash, (had no idea that there were the aggregate) actually beeps and when I went back to go downtown, I explained that there were only numeraries and I had to go to a central aggregate and changed.

When you reach this center, they told me it was a vocation to which were added and my commitments.

I added it because of beeps, at that time was studying Fp, since I have no personal or medical problem ......, nor am I an only child and my parents can live all alone without me now I'm actually made independent and there's nothing wrong.

In the center you get almost all were studying Fp ballicherato not one or other was considering a race and it was added, but they curiously did have something at home that they saw they could not be cash.

during the time I was there, people were being booed by numeraries career. And these spoke directly with the principal.

Anyway, I appreciate that because I'm wrong beep of aggregate per year to whistle I give all that I had as a little savings and the year and a half and had no vocation, and lost all that money (500,000 pts), my best friend who was living at a center requested credit to pay for the month (as I was studying and what their parents do not pay), even after he was paying out such claims.

As..............



Saludos.
 
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 Published 14 November de 2002 at 00:29:16    

Well, this topic gained some intensity, but apparently lost interest ... I will not go without say in the matter.
Well, what I was fixed between the issue since the first time was it that for some physical impediment pita added one. That's not true, in the center where I was well enterita Pite all (myself included). That is for those without college, either, in my school there were two biological chemistry, administering, two dentists, one studying law, and I studied engineering, and the truth is that you encourage (if not demanding) to advance.
Well, before continuing, let me say that all this is, of course this from my point of view ... At the center that I went up (by invitation of a supernumerary my aunt) was the center added, what influenced me to imagine that since I raised the call me the question in the three "states" N, agd, SN, Well, the tilt was more to the first two, the conclusion: I said that the N and they told me AGD, without more, wrote the famous letter to his father.
Certainly in the time you are "pulling" does not reach you to find out what your letter is going to involve in your life.
One aspect addressed in this debate is the fact the "transfer" of N AGD Agd N SN SN and vice versa, I think it's true what someone said, do not remember who, if you were going to "up" not had many obstacles, while down, if it is difficult if not impossible. In my case they told me that mine was not being added (in July) should leave the Work (in August), but could be SN (around December), not to where it was true, never became when you talk ... I saw several cases of supernumerary who whistled AGD or numeraries, but never the other way, what if it's for a dispensation numeraries ...
What has changed is not the vocation (the same), or delivery (must be all) what changes is the availability, most of all, time.
It is true that there are clear parameters that are taken into account in decisions on who will do, but I think the circumstances of c / u are what determine what ... in my case is that I am the youngest of my house and the only girl and my 'mother could not be left alone (my dad died before I raised the call), in some cases it is clear that someone is told to be be added, but not in others. The truth is that we live the same, at least numeraries and is awarded the expense account, it becomes the talk fraternal wear sackcloth 2 hours a day, the subjects once a week, doing all the rules daily, weekly , monthly, yearly, in the end all, the difference is where you live.
Something interesting is to observe the relationship between people who "fall" and that "spill". In the center where I was when newly Pite, we were 5 updates for coexistence, the following year we were 7 (there were three new and decersión) and now the first 5 only one is still there, and the other 3, 2, what numeraries same was true, and I wonder, if it be that they are not taking "necessary measures" to choose who enters and who leaves? well ...
I think this is all and forgiveness for dwell ..
Greetings to all

Pax!!!
 
 
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