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Home     The Opus Dei Forum     General         About Opus Dei in Spain, I need information for help a friend   This message has 19 replies and has been read 736 times  Reply to this message      Register on the forum        Author About Opus Dei in Spain, I need information for help a friend  Jordi  1 tracks  initiated  4 messages  posted  recent    Published 11 June de 2002 at 17:42:23     Hi, I'm new to this forum and my name is Jordi.Mi problem is as follows: I have a friend who goes to college and have strong opus mental and psychological problems for 7 years.The tells us that nothing happens, that depression and paranoid personality syndrome are diseases of the century, but the truth is that their behavior goes beyond that. The truth is we do not know how much you put in the sect, but we realized despite his lies about some strange behaviors. The problem is that we know nothing of Opus Dei, and therefore we can not relate what they do with the activity of the opus, and that is where I seek your help. I'd like to respond to these issues, things that we own or have tried hace.Nos inform several sites, but none really spoken out on the subject, and also here in Spain do not know if the issue is so serious as it seems in South America. 1. He often told us that attended the dentist every Friday. At some point, began to seem very strange, and decided to follow him without seeing us. We discovered that was not going to the dentist, and every Friday I went to a different place. After much talk with him, told us they were several briefings on current issues for people of the opus. That if such permission newspaper director to explain how the production was a physician to inform technological advances etc ... I have wondered about the veracity of his claims, but insists even so upset that tells the truth, and neither will eat the coconut and it repeats that are very good people. However, never misses one of these talks as "educational", however much they insist. The question is can anyone tell us about these talks, and behind them, here in Spain? How the issue? 2. Feel animosity toward women. Until recently (now 24) did not even know that women feel sexual pleasure. We tried to make him see that he was wrong, and when we told him verbatim "listening friend, women feel like you" began to turn red as a tomato while shouting "do so out of necessity need !!!!!!!! ". seen as a precondition for marriage virginity of women, and considers any girl prostitutes having premarital sex, I felt" disgusted "by couples who show affection for the street without being casadas.También appears against nudist practices and of course homosexuality. Can anyone explain the ideals of the opus to the woman and if they are so radical? 3. It has a visceral hatred of poverty. Also neglected and even put obstacles to people with disabilities. "Ideology of the sect also? 4. When we go to movies, places special emphasis on knowing exactly the movie we will see, coming to lie about who has seen a movie to avoid seeing it, and in many films at specific times, rises and is directed to the washbasin citing intestinal problems for periods ranging from 30 minutes to 1 hour. are there any movies and books banned by the opus? 5.Muestra Obsessively claros.Considera directly to the eyes than someone with a shade of eyes clara.De fact, looking to have a clear-eyed girlfriend, and says that when he goes to sit in Nordic countries a superior environment. Feel animosity toward any stranger than Nordic. We wonder if the theme of light eyes is some kind of value or importance in the cult, because he has never had contact with any current traditional neo-Nazi, do not know where it goes. Thank you very much and see if we get something clear from all this and still can help. The truth is that he has thought about suicide several times. Jordi    Invitado  44 tracks  initiated  377 messages  posted  veteran    Published 05 October de 2002 at 12:20:01     hello jordi exploiting doubts, I too would like to ask a question. I am not nor have I been and I will never be the opus, but until a few days walking with a boy whose parents if q are. my question is whether the opus are "suggested" to its young people who go to other members rather than with atheistic and poor girls like me. Sorry if this seems more a query of a magazine a forum so serious.    Invitado  44 tracks  initiated  377 messages  posted  veteran    Published 05 October de 2002 at 19:45:59     From what I saw in Opus (if you're male) will not let you go out with girls of any kind (neither atheistic nor pious). They only want you to go with those friends (males) likely to enter the Work. One of the manipulations of the value of friendship biggest I've ever known. Of course, if by any chance any of those friends "pita" (enters into the work) you can be waving goodbye to their friendship, because any dealings with him that exceeds the limits set by the other "brothers" will be considered " particular friendship "pernicious. All very human, you see.    iggy  8 tracks  initiated  91 messages  posted  veteran    Published 05 October de 2002 at 19:53:48     Hello forum, I just registered and I'm sorry, but I found another way of showing up at the forum or post a message you doing this: responding to one of the messages. Although I do not really respond to the message of Jordi now. How can I post a topic of discussion? Ah, I was almost ten years, Opus Dei and I am glad to find this site in no doubt that talking about my experiences. Gracias    Invitado  44 tracks  initiated  377 messages  posted  veteran    Published 06 October de 2002 at 19:45:43     HELLO WE ARE A GROUP OF FRIENDS Q had a friend and we believe it is THE OPUS BY THE FOLLOWING REASONS: He belongs to a wealthy family and Numbered 24 years who is very proud of going to Mass and is defined as A BOY VERY TRADITIONAL , HAVE A GREAT RESPECT FOR HIS FATHER AND BIBLE HAS A HOME IN A SHOWCASE presided over by His SALON, sexist mentality HAVE UNION AND DISCLAIMS ANY RELIGIOUS Q NOT LIKE YOU HAVE A GREAT OBSESSION Q FORM A LARGE FAMILY FOR GOOD TO FIRST START OVER TO LEAVE WITH A GIRL CASUAL OPUS D FAMILY AND YOUR GROUP OF FRIENDS OR NOT WE KNOW WHERE HAS KNOWN, the possibility exists that he too BELONG TO WORK AND THAT FOR you had to see that Union?     There are 2 pages of post:   1 2      Reply to this message    Close this topic    moderated forum     The Opus Dei Forum

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